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Celebrity pastor Carl Lentz's alleged lover tells all: 'I was a drug to him' - New York Post

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This shepherd strayed from his flock — and his paramour says ye shall know the truth.

Married celebrity pastor Carl Lentz’s life came crashing down around him this month after the star-studded megachurch Hillsong fired the 42-year-old father for what was initially only referred to as “a recent revelation of moral failures.” The day after Hillsong’s founding pastors announced the news to the global Hillsong community, Lentz offered further specification of his misdeeds in an Instagram post: He had cheated on the mother of his three children, wife of 17 years and fellow minister, Laura Lentz.

Now, his former girlfriend has spoken up about their fiery, five-month pandemic romance and the hypocrisy of a man who she said was unable to practice what he preached.

“I’m here to tell the truth,” NYC-based fashion designer Ranin, 34, told The Post, “and maybe by doing that, other people will have the courage to speak up too.”

Lentz has not responded to The Post’s request for comment.

The Palestinian beauty, 34, said she met Lentz on a Friday in May, at Williamsburg’s Domino Park. Ranin was with her dog, looking for somewhere to sit when Lentz offered her his circle. They got to talking. They left the park together.

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Ranin is a fashion designer.Courtesy Ranin

“I was telling him everything,” she said. “I thought he’s single, he’s a good-looking man, why not?”

They parted ways, but he took her number — in the Notes application on his iPhone, not as a saved contact. “That, for me, was a red flag,” she said.

The next day he asked her to save him a circle in the park, she claimed. “When I saw him, he asked me so many questions,” she said. Lentz, who famously baptized and was close friends with Justin Bieber, repeatedly told her that he worked with celebrities. She asked if he was married. He said yes. “I still didn’t know who he was,” she added.

After he left, she paid an app to do a background check based on his phone number. “Everything came out,” she said. “It hit me so hard.”

‘He was like a drug to me. I was a drug to him.’

She realized she’d once met him, almost a decade prior when, following her divorce, a friend of hers had taken her to the Hillsong Church in Manhattan. “I wasn’t really paying attention but I saw a glimpse of him,” said Ranin, who is Muslim but “very open to whatever,” and would attend church with her ex-husband’s family while they were married.

“I was like damn, this is the guy from the church I saw seven years ago.”

On Sunday that same weekend, he came to her house, she claimed, and they drank tequila and talked for hours. “We were sitting and he asked if he could put his hand on my thigh,” she said. “It was awkward, he didn’t know how to act at first. He was timid, acting like he was a virgin.”

He allegedly told her “the most beautiful women come from the Middle East.”

They began texting and FaceTiming constantly, she claimed, deluging each other with videos and digital communication. “We started to develop feelings for each other,” she said, claiming they were seeing each other roughly every other week — always at her home, never at his. They’d drink tequila — so much tequila, she said — talk (although not about Christianity) and argue constantly. “I leave him on read all the time ’cause he pisses me off,” she said.

Pastor Carl Lentz leads a Hillsong NYC Church service at Irving Plaza in New York in 2013.
Pastor Carl Lentz leads a Hillsong NYC Church service at Irving Plaza in New York in 2013.AP

He’d allegedly talk about how “amazing” his wife was and the guilt he felt about what he was doing to his family.

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RaninCourtesy Ranin

“He kept saying that we didn’t plan this, that this is life and we fell into it,” she said.

They repeatedly ended things.

“I kept walking away,” she said, but “he never knew how to say bye.”

She said he called her his “Middle Eastern unicorn woman” and told her she reminded him of his friends the Kardashians, which bothered her. “I don’t like when people drop names,” she said, noting that she used to work bottle service in Manhattan and has celebrity friends, too.

“He’s a professional narcissist” and “lies too much,” she added.

In September, they began seeing each other more, often twice a week. “We were obsessed with each other,” she said. “He was like a drug to me. I was a drug to him.”

‘He’s not really a good cheater.’

Then, over the course of one weekend, his wife — and then his job — saw their texts. “All his messages are linked from the iCloud,” she said, and somebody from Hillsong saw them on his computer. “He’s not really a good cheater.”

Even after he was fired, they continued speaking — up until a final exchange this past Thursday, following his Instagram post.

“‘My life is over,’” he said, alleged Ranin. “‘I usually am the one who is helping couples who are cheating, and now I’m in their shoes.’”

In retrospect, Ranin said their relationship was likely a product of the pandemic — “He hadn’t been doing anything for so many months, he hadn’t been onstage, what else was going on in his life? He needed to do something that would excite him.” She also suggested he might be having a midlife crisis and going on a “self-sabotaging journey” by way of getting into a “fiery relationship” after spending so much of his life in a “stagnant relationship” and a “strict place.”

While they both made mistakes, she acknowledged, “people like him shouldn’t preach” or drink so much. “There’s no deepness there,” she said of Hillsong — which reportedly has more than 150,000 members. “It seems like it’s a cult.”

Now that she has come forward with her story, she expects others may follow.

“I’m waiting to see if anyone else will speak up,” she said.

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Our time at HillsongNYC has come to an end. This is a hard ending to what has been the most amazing, impacting and special chapter of our lives. Leading this church has been an honor in every sense of the word and it is impossible to articulate how much we have loved and will always love the amazing people in this church. When you accept the calling of being a pastor, you must live in such a way that it honors the mandate. That it honors the church, and that it honors God. When that does not happen, a change needs to be made and has been made in this case to ensure that standard is upheld. Laura and I and our amazing children have given all that we have to serve and build this church and over the years I did not do an adequate job of protecting my own spirit, refilling my own soul and reaching out for the readily available help that is available. When you lead out of an empty place, you make choices that have real and painful consequences. I was unfaithful in my marriage, the most important relationship in my life and held accountable for that. This failure is on me, and me alone and I take full responsibility for my actions. I now begin a journey of rebuilding trust with my wife, Laura and my children and taking real time to work on and heal my own life and seek out the help that I need. I am deeply sorry for breaking the trust of many people who we have loved serving and understand that this news can be very hard and confusing for people to hear and process. I would have liked to say this with my voice, to you, in person because you are owed that. But that opportunity I will not have. So to those people, I pray you can forgive me and that over time I can live a life where trust is earned again. To our pastors Brian and Bobbie, thank you for allowing us to lead, allowing us to thrive and giving us room to have a voice that you have never stifled or tried to silence. Thank you for your grace and kindness especially in this season, as you have done so much to protect and love us through this. We, the Lentz family, don’t know what this next chapter will look like, but we will walk into it together very hopeful and grateful for the grace of God..

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